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The Limitations of IQ Tests

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What does your IQ tell you? The perception of the general public is accepting of the idea an individual’s intelligence can be measured through an IQ test. IQ tests are mainly mathematical and logic-based tests. A high IQ presumes that you are a very smart person and are therefore provided with certain opportunities in life to succeed, while an individual measured as having a low IQ, usually means that restrictions are placed upon their pathway to education. Children throughout their academic years are filtered into certain categories depending on the measure of their IQ. Intelligence Quotience, also known as IQ, … Continue reading The Limitations of IQ Tests

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Haiku – A Mindful Practice

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Clive Bennett’s guest post explores haiku as a mindful practice emphasizing present-moment awareness and nature. Originating from Japanese poetry, haiku captures fleeting experiences through structured form. Modern haiku celebrates simplicity and sensory language, inviting readers to reconnect with the world. The practice encourages observation, reflection, and emotional engagement with life’s beauty. Continue reading Haiku – A Mindful Practice

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Deep Breathing

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Breathing exercises are a powerful way to manage Stress. One particular method that is becoming more popular worldwide is Deep Breathing. There are many benefits of practicing in this way of which I will explain shortly, so please stay with me. Do you ever stop what you are doing and think exclusively about breathing? It is an automatic function, where we breathe in oxygen and breathe out carbon dioxide. Breathing is a conscious and a sub-conscious process. When you think about it, breathing is one of the most important and powerful resources you can tap into, as it is the … Continue reading Deep Breathing

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Dogs are Family too!

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The Big Black Labrador Sometimes a story appears which gets my attention, and this particular one whether true or not, has an uplifting theme about friendship and belonging. This story starts somewhere in a small college town in the USA… They told me the big black Lab’s name was Reggie, as I looked at him lying in his pen. The shelter was clean, and the people really friendly. I’d only been in the area for six months, but everywhere I went, people were welcoming and open. But something was still missing as I attempted to settle in to my new … Continue reading Dogs are Family too!

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Procrastination

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Recently, I was contacted by an independent radio station in London, England to take part in their ‘live’ Breakfast Show, which periodically covers current topics of interest in Mental Health. The subject for the planned show was Procrastination, and the organisers invited a clinical psychologist, myself and another psychotherapist to take part in a Q&A session, allowing 10 minutes for each of us to take questions and answer using our previous experience when helping clients overcome procrastination. Personally, I found the experience to be exhilarating, with no nervous feelings at all. Knowing that my voice and opinions would be broadcast, … Continue reading Procrastination

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Be smarter for a longer life.

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Andrew Lim and colleagues at Toronto University carried out tests on 3000 ‘older’ participants at different times of the year to assess cognitive functioning, measuring thinking and concentration skills, as well as physiological tests to look for early signs of Alzheimer’s disease. The outcome was that people who tested in Summer and early Autumn obtained significantly higher scores, than those tested in Winter and Spring. “There may be value in increasing dementia-related clinical resources in the winter and early spring when symptoms are likely to be most pronounced,” the authors say. “By shedding light on the mechanisms underlying the seasonal … Continue reading Be smarter for a longer life.

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Watching Birds – The Dawn Chorus

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The post celebrates International Dawn Chorus Day, encouraging mindfulness through birdwatching and listening to birdsong. It highlights the significance of this annual event, where people enjoy the morning symphony of birds worldwide, even suggesting a virtual playlist to recreate the experience for those unable to participate outdoors. Richard Bostock’s art complements the theme. Continue reading Watching Birds – The Dawn Chorus

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Mindful Browsing

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Personally I have used a few different browsers while surfing the internet and I am always looking out for a browser that can offer a better experience, whether that is one of greater security or a faster more user-friendly one. If I am honest, it would be good to have a browser that was more relaxing to use. While not wishing on AI to take over, I often get more stressed trying to navigate the interface, finding the ‘print’ or ‘download’ icon, or staring at the screen which shows screensavers that are dull and boring. Oh, how I wish for … Continue reading Mindful Browsing

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Watching Birds – The Jackdaw

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The post is about the jackdaw, a sociable and agile bird found in diverse environments. Known for its unique eye communication and acrobatic skills, it thrives in windy conditions. The author shares insights on the bird’s playful nature and social interactions, emphasizing its impressive evening displays and mindful observation experiences. Continue reading Watching Birds – The Jackdaw

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Horse Therapy

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Therapy can take many forms. People with disabilities who ride horses for therapeutic purposes do so to de-stress and to improve their well-being, confidence, muscle tone, and coordination.It serves as a workout to enhance motor and sensory abilities for posture, balance, and coordination.  Equine-assisted therapy (EAT) encompasses a range of treatments that involve activities with horses and other equines to promote positive human physical and mental health. (Wikipedia) The following true story highlights one such positive experience using Equine-assisted therapy, which I want to share with you. Do dreams come true? by AJ (seen above riding Oreo) From a young age I had … Continue reading Horse Therapy

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Understanding Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs

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Abraham Maslow was a psychologist in the twentieth century who pioneered the humanistic approach to psychology. He is best known for his hierarchy of needs. Maslow believed that human wants/needs may be structured into a hierarchy, in order to better understand what motivates people. This hierarchy includes everything from basic needs like food and water to more complex ideals like self-fulfilment. When a lower need is met, the following needs in the hierarchy become our centre of attention, according to Maslow. These are the five categories of needs according to Maslow: Physiological Physiological needs – these are biological need for … Continue reading Understanding Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs

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Watching Birds – The Robin

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National Robin Day on December 21 raises awareness for garden birds and wildlife in winter. Initiated by Songbird Survival in 2016, it highlights the robin, Britain’s national bird. With connections to Christmas cards and Victorian postmen, the robin symbolizes companionship and mindfulness, evoking a deeper connection to nature. Continue reading Watching Birds – The Robin

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Take a Device-Free break

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How electronic focussed are you? We live in a world that revolves around devices like smartphones, tablets and laptops. Having access to electronic devices that stream information to you 24/7 is not healthy for your Mental Health and Wellbeing as a whole. At the touch of a button, you have access to enormous amounts of data on every conceivable subject, including video, photos and audio to reinforce that knowledge. Perhaps it is the attraction of instant updates to your favourite person or event, and the need to be ‘in the know’, to stay on par with your peers which means … Continue reading Take a Device-Free break

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Mindful Birdwatching

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The author reflects on the mindfulness of birdwatching, recalling childhood moments of joy spent observing birds. This activity serves as a reprieve from daily chaos, encouraging appreciation for the present. Birdwatching can be done anywhere and offers mental well-being benefits, reminding adults of the natural mindfulness often inherent in childhood. Continue reading Mindful Birdwatching

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Birdsong for Wellbeing

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Looking to improve your overall wellbeing, please read on and learn about the positive relationship between birdsong and helping to decrease anxiety and negative thoughts. When was the last time you stopped what you were doing to observe and listen to our feathered friends? No matter where you are in the world, we share our space with over 50 billion birds, consisting of 11,000 species. How can birds help improve our Mental Health and Wellbeing? Well, listening to birdsong is an option. It promotes a sense of freedom, and re-balancing your life; imagining being up there in the trees, singing … Continue reading Birdsong for Wellbeing

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Set an Intention

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Setting an intention for the day is a great habit to get into. I do this as part of my daily morning meditation. I also visualise what I would like to happen during my day. Being thankful for everything that I have experienced, even the negative ones, as they are life’s lessons to be learned from so as not to repeat them. Think of an important goal that you have for the day, anything at all, and focus on that goal.  See it, by visualizing the goal and tell yourself how you are going to achieve what you set out … Continue reading Set an Intention

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Morning routine

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My favourite part of the day is the Morning, the earlier the better. It is usually anywhere from 6am to 7.30am, before the neighbourhood starts to get busy getting ready for their day ahead. There is a calm around my property, with the noise of the birds still singing their songs, and somehow the weather fronts feel far away; almost like there is a kind of bubble surrounding this particular part of my world. This feeling of security comes about through my daily practices of Meditation, two or three at different times of the day. I would like to share … Continue reading Morning routine

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Focused Meditation

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When we use a Focus Meditation, the object here is to concentrate on one object, for a short time, while immersing yourself in the experience. This helps give you a sense of calm, peace and for balance that can benefit your emotional well-being and your overall health This mediation invites you to tune into your environment by focusing on a simple object. You can use any object you wish. Perhaps an object close to you on your person, like a key, paper or phone?   A Focus Meditation is a great exercise to learn. Do you have 2 minutes to … Continue reading Focused Meditation

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Mindfulness Walks

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The work I do every day makes a difference to others – mostly, I hope, for the better. Take a break from your routine and practice slowing down during this unique Guided Mindfulness Session. I was the first therapist to offer Mindfulness Walks in this part of the UK and many others continue to follow my lead in this field, which began around the start of the 2003. There is a difference having someone who is a highly qualified Psychotherapist and Counsellor by your side. I have a Bachelor of Science degree, with Honours, in Psychology and Counselling, and I … Continue reading Mindfulness Walks

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STOP method

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The STOP method is a useful tool for calming and relaxing your mind. You can teach yourself to stop what you are doing and take a moment, to breathe and observe your thoughts. Controlling your breathing when feeling anxious or overwhelmed in situations, will help you to feel calmer and more in control of your behaviour. Going a wee bit further, you could imagine a large red STOP sign just like the one pictured above and use this when thinking through what the acronym STOP actually represents in this form of practice. Use the STOP method if your feel like … Continue reading STOP method

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Blood Test Phobia

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Personally, I used to find the experience of having a blood test quite uncomfortable, and at times found that the journey there could be unsettling to say the least. It has only been through using distraction techniques, like playing music or mindfulness meditation that have got me over the fear, and over time, it is became much easier. Blood tests at your medical practice can be quite uncomfortable to some, neither here nor there to others, but to around 20% of the population, a very nervy experience. It is the latter category that concerns me, and I include some suggestions … Continue reading Blood Test Phobia

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Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction

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“Mindfulness is about being fully awake in our lives. It is about perceiving the exquisite vividness of each moment. We also gain immediate access to our own powerful inner resources for insight, transformation and healing” – Jon Kabat-Zinn. Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction comes under the umbrella of Mindfulness Based Interventions (MBI’s) which are intended on helping people improve their health and wellbeing. Change Therapy delivers MBSR Certification courses – get in touch for more information, using this link. Intended to increase consciousness and encourage the connection between your body and mind, MBSR uses techniques that target negative subconscious thoughts, behaviours … Continue reading Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction

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Exercise over Medication?

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Chronic pain sufferers should take exercise, not analgesics/medication/prescribed drugs says NICE. Medicines watchdog recommends physical and psychological therapies when treating pain with no known cause. People suffering from chronic primary pain which is labelled as having, no known cause, should not be prescribed painkillers, the medicines watchdog has announced, recommending such patients be offered exercise, talking therapies and acupuncture instead. In a major change of pain treatment policy, the National Institute for Health and Care Excellence (NICE) say that in future, doctors should advise sufferers to use physical and psychological therapies rather than analgesics to manage their pain. Medical teams … Continue reading Exercise over Medication?

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February

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It feels like such a long time ago, preparing for the Festive period, in December 2023. All the planning of family events and purchasing gifts for loved ones and friends. We went to the theatre and attended outdoor parties where everyone would be in a joyful mood and there was a never-ending supply of festive food on offer wherever we went.  December was such a happy month, and expensive, but it was the Festive season after all! We looked forward to a New Year approaching, 2024, wondering what it would bring. After the celebrations of Hogmanay and eating the left-overs … Continue reading February

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Buddha and the angry man

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This is my interpretation of a profound life lesson about giving, protecting your personal strength and being selfless—especially so from negative individuals who can drain your energy if permitted. Buddha travelled for many days before coming to a tiny village to deliver a speech. There was a young man standing in the road, who was the only one nearby who wasn’t thrilled to see the Buddha. Buddha heard the young man yelling at him during his speech. Buddha ignored the situation and went on talking. The young man was even more enraged by this. He walked directly in front of … Continue reading Buddha and the angry man

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Jar of Life

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I came across this short story about prioritizing life which I want to share with you. It helps me throughout my life, as I often have to remind myself what is important in my world and needs more attention. Sometimes I can spend too much time on the less important things, when I should be looking after the main things like my health, partner and children. The story There was a philosophy professor who was giving a lecture to his students. In front of him, he had a big glass jar, a pile of rocks 2” in diameter, a bag … Continue reading Jar of Life

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Gratitude

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It’s Not Happiness That Brings Us Gratitude, It’s Gratitude That Brings Us Happiness. If you have food in your fridge, clothes on your back, a roof overhead and a place to sleep, you are richer than 75% of this world. If you woke up this morning with more health than illness, you are more blessed that the million who will not survive this week. If you have money in the bank, in your wallet and spare change in a dish, or moneybox somewhere, you are among the top 8% of the world’s wealthy. If you can attend a church meeting … Continue reading Gratitude

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Autobiography In 5 Short Chapters.

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Every so often I come across a gem of a story or poem that I want to share, in the hope that it will help someone to change their life for the better. This particular poem is timeless, and one that has helped many people that I know over the years. I hope that you enjoy this too. “Autobiography In Five Short Chapters” Chapter One I walk down the street. There is a deep hole in the sidewalk. I fall in. I am lost … I am hopeless. It isn’t my fault. It takes forever to find a way out. … Continue reading Autobiography In 5 Short Chapters.